OK, what I am looking for in a guy...... first of all I am looking for my best friend (the person I can say anything to and not feel judged and he will know he has the same), a lover (I am a very physically affectionate person, I love to touch and be touched), the person that can complete me, or in other words the other half of me(a person that knows me well enough that I can finish his sentences and he will be able to finish mine sometimes). I want a man that is strong enough to lean on when I need to as well as strong enough to lean on me when he needs to. I would like my guy to be able to openly communicate with me, to know when he talks I will listen but that I expect that when I have something to say he will listen to me as intently. I would like to have my guy be self supporting (not expect me to support all of us),A man who has outside interests separate from our relationship-meaning that he will not expect us to be in each others back pockets every minute of every day.(I am not possesive or jelous unless provided a reason to be, so I do not expect him to be)I guess that is quite the wish list already hmmmmm?
I love to do a lot of different things, I am pretty open. I like to go to carnivals, fairs, allentown art festival, the art gallery, walks, swimming, bike riding, going to movies, snuggle at home and watch movies or tv, reading a good book, sitting and visiting with friends or family, enjoying my gazeebo in my yard with or without a cookout. I am more a simple kind of girl. I love to cook, be cooked for on occasion, giving and recieving back and shoulder rubs. I love live music of all different kinds And YES........ I was a HUGE Michael Jackson fan over the years.......LOL
A few of the things I love...Falling in love. Laughing so hard your face hurts. A hot shower. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside. Hot towels out of the dryer. Chocolate milkshakes. A bubble bath. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful. A long conversation with an old friend. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours to sleep. Finding a $20 bill in your coat from last year. Your first kiss. Playing with a new puppy. Sweet dreams. Swinging on swings. Watching a good movie with someone you love. Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much desired gift.

A first date should be no stress, maybe coffee or maybe drinks in a public place to get to know one another, if we click then date number two is in order.