Many people say they are looking for connection or chemistry and indeed this is important. The danger of connection, feeling that the closeness & connection you have with a person are what you want, but failing to take into consideration such things as common values, interests and the ability to communicate well with each other may be over looked. I would invite a man to connect with me before I move to strike in an emotional sense. The type of man I would be with is someone who cares for his fellow man, someone who assertive with what he is passionate about, someone who enjoys his time with and away from me. I value honesty very much, sometimes it is not what I want to hear, but it is respected. I am honest with myself and about what I want. Love is the purest form of existence. Afterall, thats why we are here. Its our relationships that enrich our lives, does not define us, but adds to our existence. Looking for someone to share my dreams, my excitements, my aspirations. I am very loyal to my mate. I have never cheated, ever! I am in search of a real rel/ship that has a chance of growing to a close and deep level that could last.

First date? Well thats easy, whatever we want to do. If you are with someone you are fascinated with, it does not matter where you are or what ur doing. Spending time getting to know each other is important.