Hi there,time to update or opt out...,having been on this site for a while i have had time to re-evaluate myself and many peoples responses to my profile,pictures and description of how i see my life moving forward.For the most part the responses to me were the usual inquisitive questioning of why i decided to choose this way of hopefully meeting a future partner, or at least a meaningful relationship that would be life changing...i have tried to look beyond the sometime clumsy efforts that people make to write a profile that they feel will be favourably read,wrong....as a female i do not want a free ride....ultimately the future is mine to embrace with someone who truly understands the meaning of honesty,trust,love,companionship,and all elements that make for happiness and contentment, i love horse riding and motor racing among other hobbies and have reached a time in my life to share "us" time with someone special,have fun exploring the best times including picnics on a beach at sunset with soft music ,walks along riverbanks,a secluded restaurant for candlelite dinners appeals to the romantic side of my nature.on winter nights curling up with a good film and that special person sounds good to me.that special hug at the start and end of each day.i have a diverse taste in music from classical to folk. iam a fun fiesty female, fervently loyal to those close to me. extremely tactile in private and affectionate in public.i will always answer genuine messages,love a touch of mystique.Worldwide search is not a problem for me,i will know (and he will too)no matter where he is. we all go to exotic locations on holiday so why restrict the search for love to the same country or town? we have the technology to get to know someone from all corners of the world and surely it is worth trying if you really are searching for the one person who will be with you always.i am just looking for now,as i have not the time or patience with people who are just on here for self gratification,,so do not invite me on webcam .say hi by all means,but lets not waste each others time.genuine members are welcome to mail me,NO PHOTOGRAPH NO REPLY,sensitivity and politeness cost nothing, have fun,(quick "fumbles cause tumbles") i would however like to exchange some chat/phone talk prior to even thinking about a meeting...think it only fair to both people....(updates to follow)

being from across the pond seems to cause a problem for a lot of males...why ...answer that and being a reasonably anylitical person i will accept or not as i read between the explanation or excuses....it doesn't have to be a negative ...just to see the look in someones eyes and a hug would be worth a million words...and the date ???? spontaneity....surprises...laughter....relaxed atmosphere..it will work or not...it's up to us.....