I am a separated man (awaiting decree absolute) who lives with his four children, a boy aged 12 and 3 girls 10, 6 and 4. I am not looking for a replacement mother for them coz she is still part of their life but not mine. I am ready to move on and hopefully find that someone special - somebody who appreciates me for who I am. I am kind hearted man who will respect you for who you are, and will listen to you and never judge. When i am allowed out to let my hair down, I can be the life and soul of any party - first on the dance floor and last one to leave!! I enjoy eating out and adore either indian or italian food, love the countryside, long walks along the beach, camping and caravaning - nothing beats the outdoor life!! I love the rain, thunderstorms, being silly and clowning around. I enjoy most sports (not too keen on motor racing though)and help out with a local boys football team my son plays for. No real music tastes - anything from 70s/80s pop to motown / R & B's even the odd bit of rap. I adore family life and i believe it is important to have good strong family values. I do enjoy my own space but this is hard to achieve with a young family, so most of my spare time is spent with my children, but when they go to bed it is my time to relax and unwind. I am fully domesticated can cook and do a mean spag bol and sunday roast!! I adore ironing, this is how I relieve stress believe it or not!!! - how many men can say that! I suppose spending time in the army as a young man helped me. If I am somebody whose profile you might be interested in then get in contact with me, I would really love to hear from you.

i believe in just listening to the other person and try and find out a bit more about them. Being in the Caring profession I an a good listener with a kind heart. On the first date as an icebreaker i would go somewhere not too noisy - perhaps a quiet drink, maybe a walk etc, just to see if we have anything in common and get to know each other. Probably I'd be really nervous which is unlike me because i am usually so talkative!!