I'm just a real guy looking for a real girl, and hopefully something that will last. I like watching and going to sporting events. Especially Missouri Tigers Football, Blues Hockey and Formula 1 racing. I like bar-b-qing and camping. Snuggling on the couch with a movie. I love the beach and go at least a couple of times a year. I lived in Panama City Beach, Florida and I'd like to move back to the beach some day. Before I forget... I hate shopping!

I work in Information Technology providing computer support for a large university. I have three step-kids with whom I spent 7 years and actually refer to them as my son and daughters, and I've been divorced since Sept 2007.

I don't like to make a heavy going of life, but that doesn't mean that I'm oblivious to responsibility to people who are close to me or my community, or planning for retirement. I have grown up so, you'll be dealing with a man, not a boy. It just means that I'm not a slave to life, and just try to enjoy it as it's going through.

I'm not here just looking to get laid, I would like to find someone for the long term, but I would like to find someone who enjoys and participates intimately to some extent. We're all adults here, right? I can't elaborate without being inconsiderate so, I'll leave it at that. There's nothing better than the soft feel of a woman in my arms or her cheek against mine, her forehead on my lips. Awesome! I'm a good man, not a dead man.

I'd like to find someone who can be spontaneous at times and doesn't have to plan everything. Even just a road trip to the gulf coast on a long weekend would be nice. Put the top down, the tunes up, and laugh our freakin' ass's off. Come on baby, let's get out of town!

Probably lunch or dinner. A walk somewhere or a museum etc. would be fine too. Just have a no pressure good time of meeting someone.