Honestly is the first and most important quality that I find attractive in a man. Cheating is not something I would ever consider doing to someone I was interested in so would like a man who feels the same. I am not looking for a new dad for my kids they already have one. I tend to keep them seperate until I know that the person is going to be in my life on a regular basis. I do want someone who eventually would like to hang out with my kids. I am very independent, I want someone to spend my time with but I also enjoy hanging out with my girlfriends so I would like a guy who also needs his guy time. I am not high maintainence, or materialistic but do enjoy recieveing flowers, especially if the calander doesn't say you have to buy them lol. A phone call or text during the day just to say "hi". I love to go out and have fun weather it's going to the pub, movies or just a walk downtown. I do ride motorcycle, would be nice to meet someone who also rides but it's ok if you don't as well.