Aloha! First off, I'm a nice guy. I hope nice guys don't finish last with you. Honesty, respect, responsibility and integrity are real big with me, it's who I am. I'm an eternal romantic and believe you have to romance life, not just the woman your with. I love to make the woman I'm with feel like she's the most loved, cherished and appreciated woman on the planet. I love to give flowers, gifts, cards, notes, open doors, pull out chairs and numerous other things for the woman I'm with. I like to treat a woman like she's a lady a lot but know when to just let her be a woman too. I'm looking for a woman with a lot of self respect who can appreciate all this. I love animals and children. I look forward to having kids one day when I meet the right woman. I have started three youth groups, one in Hawaii, where I'm from, and two in Southern California. I have varied interests. I love to travel and would like to see the world. I've been back and forth across Canada a couple of times, through most of the 50 states and in throughout Mexico. I love to give people tours of Hawaii and know all the islands very well. I like to read both fiction and non-fiction and I am a writer. I spent most of my life writing poetry but have recently switched to prose. I am writing a series of novels and am on page 450 of my first book. Only 2 1/2 chapters to go! Whoo-Hoo! I'm Also writing a Philosophy Book titled "Life, the Universe and Everything". I like the exotic but also have a profound appreciation for the simple things in life. I can have fun spending the day and night out on the town and spending hundreds of dollars or a quiet evening in, cuddled up on the couch with good conversation. I'm an excellent masseur and love to give massages. The woman I'm with gets full body massages on demand, every day if she wants. I'm also Very affectionate and am looking for a woman who appreciates that and hopefully can reciprocate. I'm definitely a mature adult but really am young at heart. I guess that's why I get along with kids so well. I love Disney Land and all the animated movies that come out. I believe in living life to its fullest. Carpe Diem! Sometimes tomorrow never comes so don't leave anything unsaid or undone. It's a big beautiful world out there and life and the universe is so vast. I want to experience it all and I want someone to share it with. My favorite poem is by E. E. Cummings:
We are so both and onefull
the night can not be so sky
the sky can not be so sunfull
through you I am so I

A poem that I wrote that I would like to share with you is entitled "Whose Hands". Whose hands are better to hold the world
than those with which you clasp
so feel your fingers fondle the world
and caress it with every grasp
What more beautiful eyes to see the world
than those above your nose
to visualize the wonders caused
as your inner beauty grows
What more beautiful voice to sing of life
than your's whose life you live
To sing the beauty of your heart
what better gift to give

I like to match the activity to the person I'm with, what her tastes, likes and desires are. I am a Very passionate person and have a wide spectrum of interests. Hiking, exercise, picnics, hiking in the mountains, food, Elitch's, Water World, the museum, Renaissance Festival, movies, concerts at Red Rocks, live comedy shows, plays, the symphony, ballet. I live at a resort and we have our own 62 acre lake with paddle boating, canoeing and a walking trail. Our cafe has plenty of fun activities including live music, karaoke, dancing, trivia and more. There are So many fun things to do! Surely we are both passionate about Some of the same things!