I feel its not what you are doing, but who you are doing it with. I think its about connecting with another person and being able to give of yourself. Its about good conversation, good friends, good wine and laughter. I am loyal, intelligent and sarcastic (I'm from NY after all...) I try and get to the gym as often as I can, but by no means am a health nut. I just try to take care of myself and am looking for the same. I really enjoy the simple things in life. It's the small moments that make things special, but I enjoy the finer things too. I am looking for a secure and stable man, who is intelligent, ambitious and funny. If that sounds like you, please feel free to contact me!