OCT-the big 5-0! yikes! it's all good. glad I am still here. NO I DON'T DYE MY HAIR,EARNED EVERY ONE OF MINE! LOL
NOV-LARRY THE CABLE GUY WAS HYSTERICAL...
LOVE MY GARDEN ON THE LAKE, CANOE, MOTORCYCLES, CLASSIC CARS, CLASSIC ROCK/COUNTRY/EASY JAZZ, ALL ASSORTED MUSIC,JUST NOT RAP. A FRIEND FIRST AND PARTNER TO DO THINGS WITH. CAMPING IS SOMETHING MY SON AND I DO. I HAVE A CANOE. LOVE BOATING OUT ON THE L.I. SOUND, FISHING FOR FLUKE AND FLOUNDER. HAVE IN THE PAST/ CAUGHT SOME BIG STRIPERS.
GOALS ARE TO HAVE A SAFE HAPPY HOME WITH MY CHILD AND MAYBE A LIFE PARTNER AT SOME POINT IN TIME? I AM A MOM FIRST AND FOREMOST TO MY 10 YEAR OLD SON AND RAISED TWO OTHER SONS 28&26. LOVE THEM DEARLY.
I WOULD LOVE TO FIND A GUY WHO IS NOT DRUG DEPENDANT!, NO ALCOHOLICS!, NO LIARS!, SOMEONE WHO HAS HAD A LIFE, WIFE, KID/s, WHATEVER, BUT NOT SOMEONE WHO WOULD LIE ABOUT THINGS JUST TO IMPRESS. HAD ONE WHO TOLD ME HE WAS MARRIED TWO YEARS JUST CAUSE HE THOUGHT IT "SOUNDED BETTER" THAN 16 DAYS!!!! YIKES! JUST A WARM COMPASSIONATE COMPANION. FRIENDS FIRST, SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

"Happiness is a journey, not a destination. So work like you don't need any money, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like no one's watching!" from The Daffodil Principle. "In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer." -Albert Camus" "I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship." -Louisa May Alcott- my belief is that 'how I see my self is more important that how others see me'...Anwar Sadat

I WOULD LOVE TO GO FOR A RIDE ALONG THE COAST EITHER ON A BOAT OR MOTORCYCLE. DINNER OUT WOULD BE NICE OR LUNCH. I AM VERY PARTIAL TO CAMPFIRES OR FIREPLACES.

OK, GUYS, LESSON TIME - THOSE WHO KEEP WRITING FOR INTIMACY, TOO PUSHY, YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ME. I HAVE 10 PAGES OF EMAILS IN LESS THAN THE FIRST 10 DAYS ON PLENTY OF FISH! THOSE WHO SHOW RESPECT GET AN ANSWER. I AM VERY SWEET AND WON'T JUST IGNORE THOSE WHO ARE POLITE.
ok, lesson i have learned from a good guy,thanks kerry, activity partner???, i guess to those who use computer lingo it's more than what i thought, i take it litterally! like going to a baseball game, or the beach, or boating or fishing. so boohoo all you guys thinking with the other brain, i have changed my profile to long term, but friends first , get to know if there is anything to base a relationship on first??? remember those days ??? in this day of mutating diseases and all, you guys should really keep it in your pants, ya know???
THOSE WHO HAVE PICS - GREAT, THOSE WHO DON'T SHOULD, EVEN IF ON YOUR FIRST EMAIL TO A WOMAN. WOMEN DONT WANT TO RESPOND TO A GUY WHO IS AFRAID TO POST A PIC. LOOKS DONT COUNT TO ME, IT'S THE "EYES BEING THE WINDOW TO THE SOUL" THING. THOSE GUYS WHO POST A 20 YEAR OLD PIC? WELL, WHEN YOU SHOW UP WHAT IS SHE GOING TO THINK? I ABSOLUTELY LOVE GRAY OR SILVER HAIR, WE ARE OLDER YA KNOW? FULLY EXPECTED AT THIS AGE. MY OWN SON IS GETTING MORE GREY THAN MOM. THOSE WHO ARE "SEPARATED" OR JUST MARRIED AND LOOKING, FORGET ABOUT IT! I HAVE MORALS AS SHOULD YOU FOR YOUR WIFE OF HOWEVER MANY YEARS!!! RETHINK THE MARRIAGE COUNSELING THING... THE GRASS AIN'T ALWAYS GREENER, AND THE NEXT ONE MIGHT BE LURING YOU AWAY FROM YOUR LOVING WIFE "JUST SO SHE CAN RETIRE" EARLIER.