I am single...again. I have reconnected with so many wonderful people from days gone by, and have learned how to laugh and truly be me again. I greatly believe each day is a gift and should be enjoyed. I am also a realist and know each day can't be perfect. I believe in working hard, relying on those friends who give the constant strong shoulder, and playing hard a night or 2 a week...when the kidos go with their dad. I am honest, caring, a great listner, and very passionate. The finer things in life are important to me. I love to have a good dinner somewhere I have not recently visited, love sitting outside with a special friend on a beautiful day in Soulard and enjoying a drink, catching a Cards game (in good seats), bbqing with friends, assisting with community events, and coming home to that one special someone.

This is WAY too open. It truly depends on who I am going out with for the first time. I am open to most reasonable ideas of a first date. I am comfortable having dinner and a movie, a bbq with "his friends"...and they will likely be my friends also by the end of the night, sharing a bottle of wine on one of our decks with good conversation, etc. I believe a first date is about getting to know a person, therefore is subjective to each person's individual interests.