I'm looking for someone to be a lover, companion, and friend. I think (well hopefully everyone thinks) that trust and honesty are the foundation of a relationship. Although I may not be the best cook in the world, or may not always know the right thing to say, I am one of the most honest people you will ever meet. I know what I want in life and I want to share it with someone.


I am not interested in you if you:


binge drink
do drugs
are interested in sex partners
need to bum rides from people
don't know the difference between 'you're' and 'your'
are married, separated or not
don't have a job and have no intention of getting one
are not a Christian.

Not a fan of:
guys younger than I am
huge muscles/gym rats
your kids.

Smoking socially is okay (I don't) but any more than that I can't deal with physically.


So please don't waste your time messaging me. I do read all of my messages but will likely not respond if you fall into one of those categories. I am looking for something long term and these are aspects that I'm not interested in and will cause problems should things get serious. Hey, I'd rather be happily single than lower my standards!

Food is always good...somewhere neither of us have been is better.

No movies, no bars, no concerts. I'd actually like to be able for us to hear each other.

Oh, I work every Sat/Sun night so if you can't deal with my schedule, don't bother. Yes, I know we probably have opposite schedules but it's reeeeeally nice being off M-F!