First of all let me say thank you for stopping by. If you took the time to read this you will no one thing above all else. I am real and I don't like smoker's so don't waste your time and mine if you smoke.

Secondly, life and being happy is about finding what you want for you in your life. I have always been an equal opportunity type of person. Meaning that a girl or in this case a womans size has never really been a deciding factor or played a part in the decision making process. But I must say in my present state of mind, I am looking for a woman who is somewhat fit, however this is negotiable as a good personality trumps and great body any day.

This does not mean that I won't talk to a BBW, but I have found that I am attracted to an athletic or smaller type of woman. It's a personal thing. I want a woman that enjoys the finer things in life and does not mind helping me whilst we work to get eveything we deserve out of this life of our's.

My goal is to be a successful writer. I have already put pen to paper on three books and working on a forth. Publishing is a matter of time and place. The time is not now, and the place is not here in the U.K. Most of my stories take place in America, so that is where I will drop them.

I plan to be back in the United States in the future, so if you have no plans to go there with me, then I might not be what you are looking for, unless you have something that will make me change my mind. But then I would have to be worth it, wouldn't I? Smile:)

I love children, so if you have some thats cool. Do I want any more. Not really. Be if the miracle happened I would be over the moon with joy and anticpation. I have been told I am the perfect father. Todays version anyway....

I Like Shakespeare. This is one of my favorite passages from Taming of the Shrew. Oh to be loved by a woman like this Kate loves her man....

PETRUCHIO: Katharina, I charge thee, tell these headstrong women
What duty they do owe their lords and husbands.

Widow: Come, come, you're mocking: we will have no telling.

PETRUCHIO: Come on, I say; and first begin with her.

Widow: She shall not.

PETRUCHIO: I say she shall: and first begin with her.

KATHARINA: Fie, fie! unknit that threatening unkind brow,
And dart not scornful glances from those eyes,
To wound thy lord, thy king, thy governor:
It blots thy beauty as frosts do bite the meads,
Confounds thy fame as whirlwinds shake fair buds,
And in no sense is meet or amiable.

A woman moved is like a fountain troubled,
Muddy, ill-seeming, thick, bereft of beauty;
And while it is so, none so dry or thirsty
Will deign to sip or touch one drop of it.

Thy husband is thy lord, thy life, thy keeper,
Thy head, thy sovereign; one that cares for thee,
And for thy maintenance commits his body
To painful labour both by sea and land,
To watch the night in storms, the day in cold,
Whilst thou liest warm at home, secure and safe;
And craves no other tribute at thy hands
But love, fair looks and true obedience;
Too little payment for so great a debt.

Such duty as the subject owes the prince
Even such a woman oweth to her husband;
And when she is froward, peevish, sullen, sour,
And not obedient to his honest will,
What is she but a foul contending rebel
And graceless traitor to her loving lord?
I am ashamed that women are so simple
To offer war where they should kneel for peace;
Or seek for rule, supremacy and sway,
When they are bound to serve, love and obey.

Why are our bodies soft and weak and smooth,
Unapt to toil and trouble in the world,
But that our soft conditions and our hearts
Should well agree with our external parts?
Come, come, you froward and unable worms!
My mind hath been as big as one of yours,
My heart as great, my reason haply more,
To bandy word for word and frown for frown;
But now I see our lances are but straws,
Our strength as weak, our weakness past compare,
That seeming to be most which we indeed least are.

Then vail your stomachs, for it is no boot,
And place your hands below your husband's foot:
In token of which duty, if he please,
My hand is ready; may it do him ease.

PETRUCHIO: Why, there's a wench! Come on, and kiss me, Kate

Thats what I call a loving woman. Oh the days of old......I'm just a hopeless romantic really.

In this day and age, I believe a first date should only last as long as the woman feels comfortable. Therefore I would like to meet you on equal ground in a place where you feel safe, comfortable and secure. You choose the type of place and location and I will recipricate by being on time and well turned out for your visiual and intellectual pleasure. Yeah, we will have a coffee or two as well, if thats what tickles your fancy.

So come on, if you just read all of this. Regardless of your size or state of mind, drop me a line. You must be interested to read this far. So let's give it ago.