hello out there,my name is ray iarrive in wa.17months ago via denver,arrive here after 15yrs of marriage,so this online dating thing is all so very new2me,most of my adult life has been in a commited relationship,so allow me to tell you breifly about my self,iwas reared with some old fashion morals and values,with some what of a new skool twist,when men where really gentlemen,having been married for a while ,i now knw even more on what it takes to sustain a relationship,the ups&downs as well as the joy &laughter, the compromises as well.,so what has now emerge is a man who is more attentive,supportive,encouraging and romantic.Ilove to listen, love to be affectionate,but not smothering,i hobbies are endless but i like to bowl,shootpool and most outside events ,i enjoy the movies,the zoo and art events,have been known to dress up for romantic dinners or get down &dirty in a garden,cooking is a passion of mine as well as a good book, i love walks in the park as well as evening srolls iam comfortable cuddling on the sofa watching a movie or snuggling under the covers,my music interests include r&b,jazz,with some hiphop and rock, my best assets are my passion and my spirit,the lady i desire must be honest,positive,grounded,romantic and above all else a friend ,as i am sress free ,but learn from one another thru the journeys that life has for us,communication is a MUST,and the little things are a PLUS. family is also of inportance.i am my no means near perfect,i have my flaws as we all do,so compromise exisits within me.so if you feel that this is something that interest you drop me a line.

for afirst date would like to go sit back in apark or of your choosing and have a conversation to determine if we have things in common and see if thier should be a second date