Hello everyone. I'm currently single and looking to mingle. I would love to find that special someone although I realize that the likelihood of finding my soulmate online is probably not very high. There are no requirements with regards to friendship but on the romantic level there must be chemistry. Looks aren't everything but they are important. I appreciate curves or as Fergie put it, "lovely lady lumps", however I prefer a healthy height to weight ratio. No offense or disrespect to all you big and beautiful ladies it's just my personal preference.

As for me I'm 5'11", 180lb. and in decent shape. A few adjectives that describe me well are confident, respectful, altruistic, charismatic, random, playful, prurient, sarcastic, libidinous, loyal, flirtatious, and eccentric. For the most part I'm cool, calm, and collected. Although if rubbed the wrong way I can get heated in a hurry. I don't have a problem telling it like it is. I'm a good listener and often sought after for advice. I tend to look at life from a humorous perspective as much as possible. Laughter is wonderful medicine and it's free. I'm extremely easy going and can enjoy almost anything with the right person. I'm a free spirit who's intellectual and sexual but definitely selective. Although I agree that it's generally best to take things slow in that department, if two consenting adults have a strong connection and are on the same page, it's okay to press fast forward sometimes. ; )

I currently bartend and have been in the food/beverage industry for the last 12 years. I started out as a line cook back when I was going to school for culinary arts/restaurant management. Then I decided to gain some front of the house experience and went from waiting tables to bartending. If you'd like an inside, humorous, but rather satirical view of the industry, I recommend you watch the movie "Waiting". Or for an insightful, educational, very funny, very real first hand account, read "Waiter Rant". I love good food and drinks as well as meeting new and interesting people from various walks of life. I have aspirations to own/co-own a restaurant/bar/club/lounge.

I enjoy just about all kinds of music including Hip Hop, Rock, Alternative, Motown Classics, House, Salsa, Reggae, Jazz, Reggaeton, Oldies, Classical and New Age.

So there it is in a nutshell. After reading my profile you should have a pretty good idea as to the type of person that I am. In short, I'm genuine. What you see is what you get. I know I'm not for everyone but if you're interested please don't hesitate to drop, and, or, cast me a line. Happy fishing!

I've chosen not to put what I would do for a first date because there are too many variables that would have to be factored in such as chemistry, interests, time, weather, season, etc..........