PLEASE READ. SORRY A BIT LONG BUT ITS FROM THE HEART!




What am I looking for? First, let me say you need to communicate or meet the person and have a few interactions with that person to see if there is any chemistry. Pictures dont always tell the whole story. You should also read the profile. You have to start somewhere in a relationship, and if it is by dating or hanging out with someone a bit first, and then letting it lead into something more than great. If it doesnt work, we move on, with no hard feelings. AGE to me is not a factor and it shouldnt matter if two people like each other or get along. Its a number. It doesnt make me a creep if I see someone younger that appeals to me. There are people who are more mature at the age of 18 than at 30. (Please consider my age range: older than 18 to 45).
Im not on here to play games with anyone and hope the same from the other person. If you just want a friendship or just want to hang out, that is fine to. I make a great friend. Im a great listener. Check me out get to know me before you decide anything. different.

***I do have a slight weekness for Hispanic or Latino Women but open to all races and cultures. We should never discriminate against someones background or particular culture because each person is unique in their own right.

***WE SHOULD NEVER STEREOTYPE ANYONE'S CULTURE BECAUSE OF A FEW BAD APPLES WE COME ACROSS FROM THAT PARTICULAR CULTURE!!!***

Ultimately my goal is to find my perfect match, or almost perfect, which will lead into a Long Term relationship. Looking for someone, who is honest, that I can be best friends with, trust and communicate with and everything about our lives is shared with one another. Im very honest and passionate and hoping to start a family of my own with that right person. Im a very giving person and family and religion are an important part of my life. Im very open to learning and experiencing new things. These are items that are important to me but am willing to compromise if the situation is right. Again relationships should be a 50/50 partnership.

*** Also looking for woman who likes sports...(im not a fanatic and sports doesnt rule my life) Im a big Ohio State Buckeye Football fan and also love Ice Hockey. The Chicago Blackhawks are my favorites but can watch any hockey. (Is there one woman out there that loves hockey???) By the way, I like all sports, but would like to have someone who at least likes hockey or can learn to like it.

***Just because it says im looking for Long Term Relationship, You shouldnt overlook my profile. I will not be limiting myself. I know LTR sometimes scares people, because they have been hurt in past. I have that there because I want to be in a serious meaningful relationship and Im not on here to play games.

*** If you see that I've viewed you or made you a favorite but have not tried to contact you...it doesn't NECESSARILY mean I'm not interested. Some of you have settings that people over a certain distance or out of a certain age range cannot contact you, so even though I have tried, it won't go through. I know that if I met someone I was attracted to, and they look like they may be a good catch, I wouldn't let distance OR a few years in age keep me from getting to know them....SO don't hesitate to contact me first because we may be a perfect fit.

!!! PLEASE IF I EMAIL YOU, HAVE THE COURTESY AND EMAIL BACK. IM NOT A MIND READER. UNLESS IN YOUR PROFILE YOU STATE " IF I DONT EMAIL YOU BACK IM NOT INTERESTED " THEN THAT IS UNDERSTANDABLE. SOME PEOPLE JUST LEAVE OPEN AND I, FOR ONE DONT WANT TO LOOK DESPERATE AND EMAIL YOU AGAIN. I HAVE FOUND SOME PEOPLE DO LIKE PERSISTENCE BUT WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT. ALSO, SOME WOMEN DONT HAVE THE ABILITY TO BE HONEST, IM A BIG BOY AND I CAN HANDLE IT SO JUST TELL ME A SIMPLE "HEY NOT INTERESTED" ILL MOVE ON. I WILL ALWAYS EMAIL SOMEONE BACK IF THEY EMAIL ME!!!


***I know a lot of women are old fashioned or shy, but sometimes guys need a kick in the butt to wake up and smell the coffee, so if you see I havent messaged you, and you think we would be a good fit, please make the first move. Guys tend to be blind sometimes!!! LOL!!!

On a first date, I would go somewhere where we can have a conversation and get to know each other as best as we can on a first date. A nice long walk or a drink at a nice outdoor patio, weather permitting, is always good or both. Im open to my dates preference, or if there is no preference, I would make the best choice possible for the both of us