I am someone who lives life to the fullest and takes it day by day. I believe that everything is for a reason and that when life brings you a situation that you cannot change then you need to find a way to change yourself. You should also keep in mind that not everything is predestined. We all have the ability to use our free will to create the most amazing events in life and within ourselves. A Chinese proverb had once stated that if we keep doing what we have always done then we will always get what we have always gotten.