I come from a large, loud and crazy family and i wouldnt have it any other way, lol. I am a small town woman with small town values(my moma raised me right,lol). I love to get dressed up and be girlie on occasion but i am more myself in jeans and a t-shirt. I am a passive person and avoid conflict at all costs. I dont believe in fighting and argueing, whats the point!!!! I think people should say what they mean and not what they think others want to hear. Sometimes honesty can be painful, but a lie can be devestating. I LOVE MUSIC, it is in my soul. I love to cook, i am always trying to make new things. I hate cyber sex it is stupid in my opinion, so if you just want to talk abot sex i am not the woman for you,lol.I am a big girl so if that is a problem im not the girl for you which would be your loss because my heart is bigger than my ass, which is substantial, lol!!!!!!