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linguist73 : )
City
El Cajon California
Sign
Scorpio
Height
5' 8" (173 cm)
Age
36 year old Woman
Smoker?
No
Ethnicity
Caucasian with Blond hair
Body Type
Average
Religion
Christian - other
dating
    
 
 
I am Seeking a
Man
For
Long Term

Do you drink?
Socially
Marital Status
Divorced
Profession
self employed/student
Smarts
Bachelors degree
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Do you do drugs?
No
Do you have children?
Yes
Do you have a car?
Yes
 
Interests
Linguisticslanguage acquisitoneducation
anthropologycultures and cross cultural influencesMiddle Eastern folk dances
Eastern/Central European dancessewingcrafting
cookingnatureyoga
danceteaching
About Me
My hobbies are languages, other cultures, people, music and dance. I love to learn, so I plan on continuing school as far as I can.
I am really not into dating ( which means if I don't reply to you right away, it doesn't mean I'm mean or stuck up, it just means that I'm shy and kind of unsure about this), I have never tried to find someone like this - but I guess during my work / life I don't get to meet the right people, so we'll see if it works.
I never understood how people would go out on several dates / week - I always felt that the "one" meant for me would just find me, without me even looking. But now, after all this time, I am seriously doubting, that it is that easy.

I don't have a specific "type", it's more about chemistry, but also a few things are very important: the person I can see myself with is
- intelligent
- has an open mind and educated in the general sense (I am not talking about having a degree, but if someone cannot name at least 9 countries in Europe, believes that nothing exists outside of the United States or cannot have a conversation besides superficial topics, I don't think we would last a long time)
- has a sense of humor.
- has interests other than watching football or going out (or staying home ALL the time)
- respectful towards other cultures, ethnicities and women
- is confident, has a healthy self-esteem, but not arrogant and conceited
- is humble, and besides being aware of his strengths, he is aware of and owns up to his weaknesses

Other than these you can be spontaneous or a "planner", a "homebody" or someone who enjoys being out and about - it doesn't matter. Those personality traits are part of you and the best part is to discover them.

On a side note, looking through some of the profiles, these are a few things that "bug" me:
- pictures with a half naked body. Your muscles are not on the list of my "most important characteristics"
- pictures in which the focus is on your expensive car, and I can barely see your face. If I want your car, I go and buy one :)
- pictures in which you are hugging or holding hands with a female. If it's your sister / cousin or even your friend, that's cool, but then please specify.

I'm sure I scared away just about everyone :))

And one more thing: I am old-fashioned in the sense, that I believe men should approach the ladies, and not the other way around. There's nothing wrong with a girl to take the initiative, (I'm not judging here), I just won't do it myself :)
Consider me a mermaid, (and not a fish, haha) waiting for a nice fisherman to catch me.

First Date
somewhere - anywhere - where we can talk. Getting a cup of coffee is great, a walk on the beach/park things like that. No bars / clubs, etc. The whole point is to find out about each other, without pressure, right?
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Male
Age between 35 and 41
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
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Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
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Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke

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