I had this big idea in my mind, of how I wanted to start this description of myself here, and all of these ideas on how I was going to nearly-perfectly piece it together, but right now I am having difficulty coming up with any sort of structure, so lets just see how it goes free style.

For anyone who is just quite simply sick of bullshit, read on.

Like most of you here, I've experienced my fair share of the good, along with the bad. But I'm not here to talk about any of that. I am here to describe the reformation of one individual, that being me =) I'm a very hardworking, honest, dedicated person, who doesn't quit easily. I work a secure, full time job at a factory out in Lambeth, and make an excellent living for myself. The job is very physically demanding, so I am kept in great shape through a rigorous 8 hours of manual labour daily, as well as a solid workout routine outside of work. By no means am I one of those hulky bulky no-shirt muscly things trolling up and down the beach in the middle of summer, but I am toned, and without trying to sound overly conceited, I think it is fair enough to say that I am not unattractive by any means.

As it stands right now, I have recently come up with a list of goals and priorities in my life, and I am determined to accomplish each and every one of them. By the end of the year, I plan on being one of those guys that people look at, and say... wow... this guy did great this year, what a successful person. He really sticks to his goals. Not only is he a great friend, but he'd be a great guy to actually be with.

With all of that said, I do kind of want to talk a little bit about what I'm like, in a relationship, or what you can expect from me. You can expect me to always be there for you. You can always count on me. I was raised by two great parents who brought me up with a good set of old fashioned morales. My father took care of my family, and always made sure we knew we were loved, and remains loyal to my mother, and I really look up to him in a lot of ways, and I remember the things he did for us, and the things he has done to show my mom that he cares, and thats the kind of guy that I see myself as now. Unlike many guys, I do not shy away when it comes to showing emotion or openly talking about feelings in a relationship. I do everything in my power to show the person I am with that I care for them, that I am loyal to them, and that they mean the world to me. Being called a total sweetheart just makes me melt inside, and I will always try to be one to whomever I am seeing at the time. By no means am I clingy, or insecure about myself, I know who I am and I know just how valuable and important most of the qualities I possess really are, and how vital they are in order to acheive success in a relationship.

So, that being said, I am looking for someone that is in the same boat as me. Someone who... wants someone to care about them just as much as they care about the person they are with. Someone you can always count on, someone who is fun to be with, and can bring forth those feelings inside of us that we never knew existed. Someone to share the experiences of life with, together. I know I'm not the perfect guy, but when it comes to my own happiness and also making my friends and loved ones know just how much I appreciate them, I've been told I do a pretty d*mned good job at it.

So if you've managed to make it to the end of this read, and are thinking to yourself... hmmmm... sounds like an alright guy, or yeah... I could picture myself with someone like him, I'd like to get to know him a little bit better. Why not send me a message. Neither of us have anything to lose in you doing so, and I'd be more than happy to reply and get to know you.

In the meantime, you all stay classy =)

For a first date, I'm not really down with the whole dinner and a movie sort of thing. I think thats definately overdone, overrated, and pretty unorgininal. I like doing random things. I would be completely happy just getting to know someone, going around to several places during a day, having some fun and whatnot. The bar or club definately not, because it doesnt give people the time and space needed to get to know each other. Parks are always nice to walk through, I like to chase some of the animals around... Yes, I do make an ass of myself quite frequently, dont be embarrassed, its just me and my silly sense of humour. The beach is always a nice place to go during the summer too, get tanned up and just soak in that wonderful energy from the sun. Those are just a few idea's I'd have in mind, if I were to meet up with someone. Not forgetting, I am always open to suggestions as well =)