It's quite sad really....you go through here, and you see so many dudes, and so few females....and all the females have these cookie cutter laundry lists that are just disgusting. Here's the deal dear reader; I've had my fair share of relationships, flings, casual hook-ups, been in love, been stabbed in the back, cheated on, lied to, and mayhaps a few other things that have yet to be mentioned here....but I can tell you one thing, my life makes for some AWESOME stories to tell :).but in addition to these things, I've found love more than once, spent time with people I've learned to care deeply about, and been involved in some of the most engaging nad fun relationships that make me smile to this day when I recall them :)...and they've all been so completely and utterly different from one another, that had I made some sort of list talking about "omfg! like she needs to be this tall, this hot, latinas only, blah blah blah..." then I would've NEVER met any of these wonderful people that I've had the pleasure of spending time with. with this being said, you'll find that I am THE MOST open minded individual you will ever meet. Period. I see the gray area in every aspect of my life, and I always do my best to not judge people on decisions they've made in their past. but with this in mind, I expected to be treated with the same courtesy I show you. now that we've got this disclaimer I should probably talk about myself....first, and foremost, I have one of the most diverse tastes in music you will ever come across, and I always surprise everyone I come across with at least something I've got on the Ipod :P my faves right now would be....Arctic Monkeys, Thrice (new Thrice...not the old punk stuff. they've grown up, get over it),The Whitest Boy Alive, and Chester French. I go to Chaffey College, I work at the movie theatres ( so i get free movies..not as cool as you'd think. trust me), and in my spare time I play video games, read a book, spend time with my amazing friends and party my ass off....I'd hafta say my FAVORITE kinds of nights are the ones with all my friends in one place, a ton of alcohol, a pretty girl by my side, and rock band for everyone...and we're all singing at the top of our lungs to Chop Suey :P yeah call it dorky if you will, but we get down :)

now that we've run through all the standard crap, let's talk about what makes me unique shall we? Well to start, you'll notice that I'm VERY good at saying what's on my mind, and speaking clearly. I'm never one for those girly "there's nothing wrong with me" games, and although I come across as objective, I'm incredibly caring and sensitive towards the way people feel...I LOVE to talk and listen, and it may not seem like it because of how I write, but I'm very good at making people laugh. I love being the center of attention, and enjoy it when me and my friends get goin on a funny story that has everyone crying their eyes out :) I'll keep it real ONLY if you ask me, and whenever I'm involved with a girl, I ALWAYS give 100 percent, whether we're in a relationship, or in that little "getting to know each other" phase before gettin together. I'm incredibly caring, 100 percent faithful, and ALWAYS rational...keep that last part in mind because it's caused a lot of problems in the past. I don't function well when people do mean and hurtful things at the drop of a hat, especially when we've known each other for a long time, so if you're prone to sudden lapses in judgement and enjoy starting fights over nothing, then please take it elsewhere : / although if you do, you probably won't mention it, so perhaps we'll work on it if we hang :P so as you can see...I'm open minded, intelligent, caring, rational, and a tad bit talented in the music department...hit me up if you want, or ask for the Nyspace link if you want, cuz I can check that through my phone easier than this :) hope to hear from ya, and if not...lol chances are I'll meet someone sooner or later! oh ONNNEEEE MOOORREEE THING!!! maturity is usually the deciding factor with me...please no teenage nonsense, and don't jump to conclusions when I say things....it bugs : /

not gonna lie, it's always tough deciding on a date, but I can tell you one thing. Seeing chicks that say "you decide" is the most retarded thing ever! my idea of a date is us deciding TOGETHER what it is we wanna do...think about it, how the hell are we supposed to click if we can't even decide on something fun to do just to meet? and don't say it's because "I wanna know how creative you are" because that's crap...we BOTH wanna know how creative the other person is, so let's converse, and be friggin adults ok? I've got a TON of ideas, duck ponds, art museums, boardwalks...hell, I can even cook for you if you'd like, but I'm not doin anything without some kind of input from you...so meet me halfway, you'll be happy you did :)