I know I have a lot to offer to to the right man and I will continue to look for him until I find him. I will not settle or compromise my standards. I know that he is out there... somewhere. I am a hopeless romantic. Is it you ?

I am very old-fashioned, affectionate, genuine and sincere. When I am in love, I love very deeply and am very committed. I am not looking for my NEXT relationship, I am looking for my LAST. No one night stands, no casual encounters. I am a one man woman who dates only one man at a time. By the same token, I am not looking for the #4 position in the long line of girlfriends. If you are juggling several women, please pass me by. In search of a long term, committed, monogamous relationship. Serious inquiries only.

I want to be your number one priority as I will undoubtedly make you mine. I am emotionally and financially secure. I am a strong, independent and confident woman who does not NEED a man but definitely WANTS one, and the comfort and security of two arms to hold her.

What kind of man am I looking for? I need a man who is not easily intimidated, someone secure enough with himself to be accepting of a successful partner. Someone who will not turn and run at the first sign of conflict. Someone who can handle the stresses that may sometimes come with my occupation. Someone of character and substance, with staying power. Someone who is capable of communicating his thoughts and feelings.

I am sorry but I do not date convicted felons, smokers, heavy drinkers, drug users, pornography or gambling addicts.

I have no children and prefer to date men who either have none or whose children are grown and gone, with one exception: (children without a mother. In that case, I would be happy to be a mother to a child in need).

I don't come into a relationship with any baggage. No skeletons in the closet. I do not play games. I certainly do not cheat. If I had to select my best trait, it would have to be my loyalty. I know the pain of being cheated on and I have never even considered it.

I am a firm believer in open and honest communication. If you cannot communicate the relationship simply will not survive.

I still believe in the power of true love and a committed relationship. I want someone who believes in the same. I have learned that relationships need attention, compromise and communication and I would like to find someone who feels the same. I yearn for the kind of relationship where you can't wait to rush home to see one another and you dread the thought of leaving. Someone who comes home because he "WANTS" to as opposed to feeling like he "HAS" to. A relationship should be a joy, not an obligation.

I have learned from my past relationships and have grown as a result. I take ownership and admit the mistakes I have made and make a conscious effort not to repeat them. My word is my bond. I am fiercely loyal and believe in a monogamous, one-on-one relationship.

My photos ARE current. People are shocked when I tell them my age. I am consistently told that I look ten years younger.

Update: I am finding it awkward that I would even have to mention this, but apparently I do: If you have a felony conviction, been in prison, please pass me by. I cannot date you, nor would I likely be interested in doing so. I apologize in advance if that fact insults you, I simply do not want to waste your time or mine. Also, if you have been arrested and wish to use this site to analyze or discuss your poor experiences with my agency, please pass me by. I am profoundly proud of what I do for a living. The notion of serving my community and defending innocence, is in my opinion, the greatest privilege in society. If I have to explain that philosophy to you, then it is best that you pass me by.

First date : I prefer to meet for a quick, brief cup of coffee or drink to see if there is any chemistry. Let's face it, without a physical attraction, it is not going to work, so why torture each other through dinner when you know immediately it will not work. I do not date for a free meal/drink/food. I am looking for forever. Do not want to waste your time, money or mine. Hope that makes sense to you.