The outside: sandy blonde hair, blue eyes, well groomed, good dresser, and athletic. I might look like the last 10 guys you have dated, but the inside is a whole different story, guaranteed. The looks I had nothing to do with (thanks mom and dad) ... it's the inside of me I can take credit for.

The inside: New England values, world view, chivarous charm, spiritual, good-natured and kind-hearted but strong, clever, thigh-slappingly funny on occasion, and probably too adventurous for my own good.

I enjoy all sorts of people. I am down to earth but do enjoy the glam. The more one sees the world, the more one knows what is truly elegant, and so often that it's the simple things. Make no mistake, I am definitely a gentleman and take great care of myself, inside and out.

I think a relationship is you calling during the day just to hear your voice. My friends get tired of hearing how great you are. I'm away on business and open my suitcase to see a card from you. I love to surprise you just to see you smile. When we talk we use the word "we" and not "me."

Relationships take time, work, and effort. I will take the time, do the work and make every effort, will you? I will not walk away if and when things get tough, and my destiny will never again be tied to someone who can.

I love the outdoor, anything to do with water is tons of fun for me. I love to snowboard, golf, and scuba dive, but a warm sunny beach is always a welcomed sight. From ABBA to Zappa -- I enjoy music, except gangster rap and "my dog died" country.

I was raised Catholic but now consider myself more spiritual than religious. The golden rule is THE GOLDEN RULE. Not too hard to follow.

It is kind of crazy how complex and technical dating has become. What ever happened to the Friday night date that our parents used to go on?

I am looking for a girl that has passion for life, is comfortable in her own skin, successful, and is a positive and individual. It is important that she have a desire to grow in all areas of life.

I live life to its fullest... I am open to any and all adventures; life is too short not to be! It's Friday and I say, "let's take off for the weekend...are you game?”

In short, I am a happy person. I like my job, my family, my friends, and I truly appreciate every day that I am on this earth. The only thing that would make it more incredible is having someone to share it with.

I know now more than ever what I seek in a relationship. I do not serial date. When I am with you, it's just you, and I want the same.

Since we can't really know who each other since we are using the web, I think the best "first date" would be a quick coffee date to see if there is a click. We can take it from there.