i love music, im just me totally honest and real i dont lead people on. im an ambitious person who eventually wants a similar thinking female in my life who also wants to succeed. i dont think like the usual guy i have views that might be alarming to some but i guess it makes me intresting. i consider myself a man of substance who is always ready to learn new things as well listen. alot of people clearly dont listen hence the billions of ignorant statements we as humans make everyday me included but the difference when im concerned is that im willing to change BUT ARE YOU

THE UPDATE

RELATIONSHIPS:- When relationships fail its normally because people enter them for the wrong reasons. most people enter relationships with an eye toward what they can get out of them,rather than what they can put into them.The purpose of a relationship i believe is really for you to decide what part of yourself youd like to show up not what part of another you can capture and hold.A woman or man will never complete you there fore when either are in a relationship and makes the statement (now ive found my special other and now i feel complete )the relationship could be possibly goin the wrong way why because the purpose of a relatinship is not to have another who might complete you but have another who you share your completeness with. Some people have dreams but some cast there dreams aside for there significant other unknowingly then wonder when in the realtionship they thought was there greatest wish then realise they still feel empty and wonder why this in turn leaves one or both of the parties wanting. When your in a relationship worry about you (self) be selfish wonder about what your doing ,and having and wanting, asking , giving and seeking, creating and lastly experiencing then your relationship would be much stronger. Why BECAUSE YOUD THEN BE HAPPY THEN YOU GET TO KNOW HOW YOUR MAN OR YOUR GIRLS SOUL RATHER THAN WHEN YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP HANDING THE JOB OF MAKING YOU HAPPY TO THE OTHER PARTY.

FINAL THOUGHT

After having some serious ups and downs with girls ive realised what i have been doing wrong. From the start of a realtionship if you both agree at the concious level that the actual purpose of your relationship is to create an opportunity,NOT AN OBLIGATION and realise its an opportunity for growth for full SELF EXPRESSION and lifting your lives to thier highest potential then youve got a much better chance of connecting on that spiritual level and experincing love in its realness because through the bond you share with your partner it should help to mend and heal any false thought or small idea you may have had about YOURSELF

Sadly in my last relationship i made some stupid blunders that cost me plus i wasnt being honest and showing the real me because i misinterpreted her and lied about things i thought shed care about in the long run it was costly be real to yourselves and others and dont settle why because you dont have to. Money , education and general knowledge doesnt mean sh*tif there is no wisdom behind it.

the first date would not be anything to do with going to the cinema HOW WE MEANT TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER IF WE ARE BOTH STARING AT A GIANT SCREEN LOL the likely hood would be us just going to a bar having a drink and communicating and seeing if theres a spark or not