I never seem to get this part right, mostly because I try to be funny or interesting and try too hard. So this is all straight from the hip no filter or preplanned. I am a 40year old man who tries to be a good person and try to be thoughtful of other. I was brought up by my mother to always say please, thank you and open the door for your date and pull out or push in the chair at a dinner table for your date. I am going to try to talk a little bit about me which is a hard thing for me or even most people. I am a guy who can only date one person at a time and I like to think I always put all of my heart into my relationships. I am a firm believer in the concept of “THE ONE” I have to believe it and I hope I find her.
I am the guy who would do anything for the people I love from traveling miles out of the way because the women I am dating wants a piece of candy from a certain place that she might have had when she was a kid. I come from a family of 5 kids and I am the youngest and still get treated as the baby of the family at the age of 40. I would do anything for my family. The most important things in life is love, family, friends and (a cat named money) long story but a good one.
I am looking from someone who can look past the outside shell and see me for whow I really am. Its not that I think I am ugly or should wear a mask. I am in the best shape of my life but I am not a model or even pretend to be one. I know to some people looks are very important and I get that but if the person your interested in is only missing “looks” but has all else why should that stop you from getting to know that person.
I can only promise a few thing,
1. I would always remember the special miles stone of the relationship.
2. I will always treat you with love and respect.
3. I will always try to put 100% into my relationship
4. I will always give all of myself to the person I love.
Plus I can cook with the best of them, my baking is not so good but I will always do even better help us do the dishes. I believe in doing the little things like cooking dinner or even doing dishes to gather can also be quality time, because its not what your doing together that brings you closer its time together.

Family, friends and people we love is the most important thing in my life nothing is more important.

open to almost any type of first date. I look at it as a chance to get to know the person your interested in or at least a chance to see if its a friend or could be more.