hey yall.. trying this again. first and foremost... i am not a barbie doll.. i am a big girl.. as it stated before you made it this far, i have a few extra pounds.. if you are looking for the perfect girl with the perfect body, keep lookin.... dont bother telling me that you dont judge.,.. dont bother telling me its the person inside... and please dont bother telling me how you are falling for me and really like me... cuz apparently i am an idiot and believe every guy that says that... apparently i am a wonderful person.. and i am so sweet and kind. just not "the one" that most men want.. if you made it this far, you now see that i am a lil tired of the same story, same routine. yes i am cute (i think). and no, im not a slob... i am me... and would love to find a man that appreciates that..
i am a 35 year old mom of one and a paramedic.. i love the beach and love hanging out with ppl that are close to me when i do get time to hang out on the beach.

i would love to find someone that as looking at the future, rather than looking no farther than right now. i have a tendency to trust easily and believe that ppl are generally good.. (that one bites me in the butt a lot).

i like to think that i can actually carry on an intelligent conversation, but i also know how to laugh. i love british humor and crack up at spoof movies.

i am not sure what makes me a unique girl. i was raised a little old fashioned and believe that a man should always feel like a man. on the flip side, i think i should be treated like a princess. i tend to be a little jaded and moody at times, but i like to think that i give everyone a chance.

i love music of all kinds and love to sing.. when asked who i sound like... well.. i sound like... me.. the beatles are my all time fave..

ok.. i dont like to talk about me, but i did put forth a lil effort.. if you made it this far, i am gonna place a little disclaimer here... please dont contact me if you:

1. dont have a job and a car
2. plan on standing me up at any point in time
3. only want a one night stand (absolutely not my style)
4. have a problem with kids... my 14 yr old will always win.
5. have a problem with the hours that a paramedic keeps..(i work nights and have every other weekend off).

if you made it this far, and havent hit the road yet.. give me a holler.. would love to hear from you.. bear in mind tho, i have been treated terribly by men recently, so it might take a little time to warm up and start letting you in...

thanks for strugglin thru the profile.. have a great day..

well.. if i could get past being stood up, a great first date would be somewhere where we can hear each other and talk.. no movies. no loud bars. however, somewhere where ppl will know if i am being abducted. lol. talk for as long as we want, then go our separate ways. then, if you just cant get me out of your head, call and ask me out again.. the second date.... somewhere fun.. i will let you surprise me..