NOTICE New Essay, Two changes, I do not own a car I ride a motor bike and may upgrade to a cruiser because i'm lovin it. or may opt for a car again don't really know right now. But I love the wind in my face, like a puppy sticking his head out the window....lol hmmm never thought about it like that...lol
I marked, prefer not to say, in the do i want children box because i don't want to have a baby but if you have children at home i'll make a great stepdad to them.
Separated for 19 years, divorce is finally due in jan. 2010. Three children, youngest is 26. Three grandchildren, all boys. Looking for a sweet woman to share lifes moments. Young thinking, not a couch potato and very much a lady.
I like music, film, photography, travel and sports, live or on tv. I have a great sense of humor and am very open. I enjoy speaking about everything or nothing at all. No Ultra-conservative, negative ladies please. My politics are middle of the road, i am the silent majority.
Cuddle should be my middle name because i love the feel of a woman in my arms, non verbally exchanging emotions and energy between couples. I'm warm and very affectionate, i love to kiss and hug.
I'm religious but accepting of most faiths teaching love and peace, not hatred and bloodshed. I hope to be able to travel some and enjoy new experiences. I love scrabble, poker and gin and planning something special for my honey. I'm only looking for the one right lady forever.

The first date is a meeting between two adults to see if we have common interests and views to talk about. So it should be public for comfort and quiet enough to talk. So a coffee shop or lounge would be good.
Then the first date should be romantic and take into consideration common interests, dinner and a movie, a show, a walk in the moonlight and a evening picnic, maybe by the lake. Or even the las vegas drive in with all the junk food and a double feature maybe by the second movie we won't care if we miss some of it....lol :-)