well im a single father. my hobbies are staying fit, basketball, video games with the kids, bar-b-ques with the kids. Jus being a stand up father for the ones who arent and basically taking care of my responsibilities. ive never been married but want to someday. i love sports, cars, pool, and hanging out sometimes with my close friends. drama is not a part of my life. i dont have time for it cause grown ups dont do that (lol). ive been in wichita for 4 years now. AND YES 38 IS MY REAL AGE. I would like to meet a female that is kind, FUNNY, loving as well as caring and just an all around women who loves to just enjoy life the way that its given to them we were all put on this earth for one reason or another. What i dont want is a female thats loud and immature. when you hit your 30 mark you should be/and act like a grown person i dont have time for games. laughter can make even the hardest moments seen a litle easy at times. I try not to let things get me way down. Sometimes you jus have to take the hit, get up, and brush your shoulders off and keep moving forward....HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON........PEACE..to see more of me. check me out under whatsdatlike on m.s.

A local quiet spot to talk and get to know each other then make plans together as the evening/night goes on. i believe that two people on their first meeting should decide together what happens next. makes it alot more fun