Music is my #1 hobby. I've been a bass player in a couple classic rock bands. Although I've been out of that scene for about 8 years, I'd like to form/join another band fairly soon. I've also retaken up bicycling this year after a 3 year absence from it. I've been out of the dating scene for 18 years. At that time, I was operating in the straight world, only to recently discover thats not where I belong. The gay thing is pretty new to me, so I'm not quite sure where to begin. So I'll begin here.