I am outgoing , spontanious, intelligent,can hold a conversation, love listening to music and (singing it as well),spiritual, caring (but direct),have a great sense of humor. (A Plus quality in a man for me is to have a great sense of humor)

A first impression means a lot to me so the first date would have to be memorable from start to finish. I am very open minded (but christian)and love a man who can take the lead on planning a great night out. A big turn off for me is a man that either looks like he spent to much time in the mirror or not enough time in representing himself. I don't mind discussing family , friends , hobbies, goals on a date I just would prefer someone who can focus on the present and future and not so much on past relationships.