Are you 'enlightened' about relationships? (Hmmmm....what does he mean by that?)

I mean, have you come to a point where you realize that stating a list of your attributes and a list of what you want in a man just doesn't work?

I mean, I'm saying, I don't think you can find your 'one' in front of a computer screen :)

So rather than filtering everyone first, meet each other! Be surprised!

Like it used to be! When you were younger, that's how it worked. You saw each other across the room, or a friend introduced you, or you were in the same class. And Wham! It happened!

Unlike the listing process here. I think it requires meeting, and seeing if there's chemistry, and learn about each other through actually meeting.

Just a few lines about me, 56, athletic, tennis, hiking, jogging, and I help disabled children for a living! Beat *that*! :)

My first date would be outdoors, overlooking a sunset, having a wind-down drink, eating yummy ceviche at Las Brisas (Laguna Beach). Then a romantic stroll along the rose path along the cliff. Look into each others eyes, feel the chemistry, long pauses, maybe even steal a tender kiss along the walk.