I am and enjoy urban kind of things; walks downtown, in small neighborhoods with stores you can walk in and out of; coffee shops and resturants of one ethnicity or another; Nature walks are great; Leisurely walks holding hands and stopping for a hug or kiss are my kind of walk, ANYWHERE for that matter; Affection is appropriate almost ANYWHERE! most of the time! DINERS would be great; they don't seem to exist here though, know any secret ones hidden away? I love bookstores, galleries, flea markets, garage sales; antiquing, old cars (just looking guys)....I don't need or need to buy ANYTHING; just walk and talk; or sit down over a cuppa and speak about ourselves, our lives...important stuff and silly stuff. I love PEOPLE, pets, MUSIC; top of list is BLUES, JAZZ, BLue Grass and then just about anything; except maybe violent rap; or new country/western; high notes make me howl...or any way my ears hurt) but I'd love to experience the OPERA, at least just once, Ballet, Symphony., what a treat that would be!!!! ....I love to read; love movies (old, new, foreign, NOT VIOLENT GORY ones) yes guys, I DO CRY sometimes at movies....museums, live music: of course, I want to know what you like to do; what are your passions? I don't have to share all of them, or you mine...It's always good to have some separate interests so there's something to RE-new ourselves with; then come back refreshed and excited to be with the love of your life.

I would want it to be something that would INcourage a lot of communication. In all likelihood it would include somewhere/something so that we could sit opposite each other and look into each other's eyes or next to each other and hold hands to feel OUR connection, while talking if that was appropriate to the time and place and US of course. . Some light music in background perhaps, not noisy; light enough to see each other in a good light; taking a leisurely walk; if there's been enough conversation to get to know one another sufficiently to hold hands and have comfortable silences; this date is for getting to know each other and learning to communicate in our own individual ways with eachother. Once this has been established...it depends on the chemistry and preference of two adults as to how they wish to continue or leave and make plans for next time; a good first light kiss and good hug is an indication of successful communication . I have been called shyly sensual and I guess I might say I'm an eternal and incurable romantic. I believe that kissing is very special; and touching is very intimate if its done right. IT seems to be a lost ART and I'm looking for someone that can FIND IT with me and TREASURE it as I do. I believe that it should be done with tenderness, gentleness and affection; passion as we get to KNOW ONE ANOTHER better; it increases as time and interest naturally increase; and with mutual consent. One never knows if and when that NEEDLE in a HAYSTACK finds the thread and knows what and how to weave and sew a beautiful heart to embroider next to or over your own. IF I COULD SUM it all up in a sentence...what is integral is mutual giving and receiving; KNOWINGness of trust and the ability to plug into each other's ENERGY at ANYTIME the mate is low and KNOW that you are NOT taking life out of; but putting life in and thus being RECHARGED yourSELF by LOVING/GIVING! that's what real COMMUNICATION/LOVE IS! A nurturing UNconditional CONNECTION of hearts, minds and SPIRITS and SOULS! ARE YOU READY, is that what YOU DESIRE in your LIFE & HEART. Here is someone who genuinely desires all that I've said above and simply looking for one GOOD STRONG MAN who KNOWS who HE is and what HE's DESIRING and HOW to GIVE It without FEAR or reservation...IS THAT YOU????