I have a lot of hobbies, lots of interests, and am pretty open minded to the rest. Instead of putting a "list" i'd rather just have a nice personal conversation and see what we have in common.
I have traveled the world and thats something I would love to do with someone else. I have been to Japan, Guam, Alaska, Hawaii, England, France, Spain, Germany, Luxembourg, Greece, Turkey, and Qatar. There is SOOOOO much to see in this world, so much to experience outside of Wisconsin...new cultures, people, foods, historic sights...its just awesome to see everything!!!!

I am looking for someone who has their act together. I am open minded since i have a non-conventional job and schedule, so I am hoping you are just as open minded, understanding, and able to communicate your wants and needs in a relationship. People who play games and can't put it out on the line won't get along with me very well. I am confident in what I want and what I can offer, so please be the same.

If you want to know more...please don't be afraid to write to me. Hopefully you say more than just "Hey, how are you doing?" I have gotten plenty of those and that lacks every ounce of creativity. There is a lot more to me than what I can write on here, and regardless what happens, you will find me sincere, honest, and upfront about anything you ask...but at least take the time to find out, I may just be worth it.

I have been noticing a trend of women who like to email a few times and fall off the face of the earth...if you are the type to engage in a conversation and decide I am not your type and NOT say anything, please do me the honor or not even writing in the first place. We are all looking for something out of this, it may be me, it may not, but please treat me with respect as I assure you I have done nothing to disrespect you.

* A quick note about my "undecided" status for the kids thing. This topic is bound to come up so I will set the record straight. I love kids, just not sure if I want any. That doesn't mean I dont want a relationship, but I am trying to decide, based on the person I am with, what type of relationship I want. I am hoping to find someone open minded about the kids topic. IF we get to that point, its a decision I feel needs to be made together, not predetermined before I even meet you. For me, if it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Whats important to me is the relationship I am in first, and IF kids is the option, creating an environment for success to raise those children and still enjoy the fruits of our relationship.

BY ALL MEANS...ask a question is you have one! I don't bite ladies! If after everything I have said you dont feel I am honest or sincere about what I am saying, then why say hi or write??? Be ready to engage in a good, meaningful, educational, FUN conversation when you talk to me.

And if you are going to put me as a favorite...please write to me.

Something where we can talk. Either grilling out with one of my home made beers or a nice glass of wine. Going for a walk. Playing mini golf or going to the driving range. Meeting for coffee down by the lake. Who cares what we do, who plans it...lets just be relaxed, go have fun, and see what happens.