I have all the things in life that I thought I wanted. Two terrific sons that are amazing, my own home, job I love, great family, and wonderful friends.
What I don't have is that one person that makes me want to make it even better every day. The one I know has my best interests in mind and with a look knows its a great life.
I want a man who respects and enjoys all that makes me who I am. A man who knows who they are and what they want as much as anyone of us can.
Someone who understands that you get out of life what you put in and usually it's much more when it comes to relationships.
Someone who values a straight talking lady. I am an independent woman who has been divorced for years (no broken wing on this bird), being self employed has made me learn to be more in control of my free time and make the most of it whenever possible.

When I wrote does not want kids I am saying does not want to have any more children of my own. If you have children great. I enjoy kids and all the silly things you get to do with them. I am looking for a man who is not living in his past accomplishments or pain but is striving towards a better and fuller life every day.
You must be able to talk easily in all types of settings. If you can be cleaned up for a night on the town once in awhile that works to. I want a man who enjoys pyhsical activity and likes playing and watching sports. You should have friendships that have stood the test of time. Dating should never effect each others time spent with friends.
I look for the humour and laughter in life but I am also sensible and caring. Friends enjoy my saucy sense of life and quick wit. I want to laugh until it hurts thats a great day for me. Looking to share the best of all I have to give and enjoy the warmth of being with a man who is not afraid to express himself verbally and physically. I am not here looking to get married or being taken care of by a man, but I am here to find someone who is willing to see the good in life and share the joys and encourage me to be the best I can be. We will see where that takes us.
I do hope you "catch" the right lady. If you do decide to send me a note I will respond within 24 hours. A picture is worth a 1000 words so send one.

First date would be after meeting to see if what the the PoF profiles and what caught our attention were right. If it was than it might just continue after what was supposed too be a quick meeting of strangers into a long evening of laughter.
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