my closest friends usually describes me as a mature, real down to earth guy with a caring smile in the world. i like to have fun but i also can be laid-back, very mature and i have a sense of humor. as far as what i look for in a woman, in the famous words of LL Cool J "i need a around the way girl, just the one for me". she would be a real down to earth, drama-free woman, loving, caring, dont like to play games because that is going around alot!! a woman who can be my best friend as well as my lover, has a beautiful personalty on the inside as well as the outside, attractive and smart.

it can be soo many things good to do on a 1st date just as long as me and that partner is enjoying each other's company and having a good time. i would go to a nice jazz club to see a live band performing. if possible, i can on stage with the band and perform in front of my date playing a nice song. i listen to alot of old school r&b, some neo soul, some contemporary jazz and old school hip hop.