When did you have the most fun in the last year? When was the last time you laughed so hard you were out of breath and maybe a little dizzy? I just LOVE times like that, and they happen all the time! I cannot remember the last time I was actually angry. Anger really doesn't do us any good, and it is so much easier to speak your mind, and move on to something more productive. Right? You cannot change people, and who would want to? You can only change your behavior, or your reaction to others' behavior.

I am a bit of a procrastinator, but friends tell me I am organized. I am not sure I see that, but in some ways, I am sure they are right. Some areas of my life are structured -- and probably should be -- but I like to be as flexible as possible. Just because "that's the way it has always been done" does not necessarily mean that's the way it has to be forever. Let's try a new path, a new schedule, a new outcome, and maybe the result will be even better than what we were shooting for!

I love to have a good laugh with friends -- a big group or party of 2 -- it doesn't matter. Every person brings something unique to the world. Sometimes the quirks are the best part!

I support the Humane Society. I spend some of my free time volunteering. The people are a little goofy (aren't we all?), and the animals are wonderful! In this way I am so selfish -- give them a little ... attention, love, affection ... and you get back so much! There is nothing better than crawling around on the floor with half a dozen furry, clumsy bundles of energy!

Physical health is a large part of my life. I believe if you take care of yourself physically, it shows on the outside, and improves your internal health as well -- mental health, self-esteem, emotional balance. If you respect yourself, others will follow suit. If you are chemically addicted in any way, please continue your search elsewhere. If you are addicted to the good things in life -- the satisfaction of a job well-done, the warmth of a friend's hug, the excitement of a new adventure -- maybe we're a good fit. I would like to see a photo of you. I want to see your eyes and know your smile. ... they tell a genuine story. Do you have friends? Are you emotionally available? Do you like to receive affection? Do you know how to give it freely? Let me show you! The payback is exponential!

Physical health is more than being a non-smoker. I enjoy exercise of almost every kind, and try to get some kind of workout every day. I teach classes at the gym, and would love to find someone that shares the same interest and dedication to fitness.

Appendix A: I initially felt it was important to respond to all messages. Unfortunately, my friendly response was often met with unpleasant and sometimes nasty feedback, particularly if the response was not what someone wanted to hear. I have since decided it is better to say nothing than to raise someone's ire needlessly. Thank you for understanding. :o)

Let's go somewhere we can chat. I'd like to get to know you, see your smile, and discover what is important to you. You won't have to tell me, I'll know by what we talk about, and how you move. We won't do any specific activity like bicycling or watching a movie, because that would be too distracting -- you will be my focal point. There is plenty of time for all the other fun activities after we've decided we're right for each other!