I have been living in NYC for almost three years and love it. I am looking for someone who loves to go out and experience everything the city has to offer. (very cliche, but true) I love going out to dinner, relaxing in the park, and partying in the clubs. I am not that person who is "tired of the bar/club scene." That is not to say, however, that I want to date a guy that goes out every weekend without me. I am looking for man who loves to have fun but also loves to have a quiet night in. I believe the most important thing in a relationship is trust. Without that, nothing else will work.

So let's be honest.. there is no way you can know much about a person from a few emails or texts... therefore, a drink is a perfect first date for someone you meet on here.. and i say drink, not coffee, because alcohol is quite helpful in meeting a stranger.. all i need to know is if i am attracted to you (in person) and if there is some chemistry.. then we can see about a second date.. and if you make it to a second one, the expectations increase ;) lol