36 years old, with one eight year old son. Although he doesn't live with me, he is the heart and soul of this fella.

I do own my own small business. Gasfitter by trade, for those of you who don't mind a guy who works with his hands. Although, you'll have no problem finding intellectual conversation with me as well.

I moved to Woodstock a few years ago. My business coverage is from Guelph to London and from Brantford to Stratford. So, yes, I do put on some miles. And therefore have no problem travelling to meet a nice girl.

I know we all have a list of things we want in a person. I've come to realize that although that's a perfect world, none of us are exactly perfect. I really want to find someone that looks at life as an adventure, not someone that's constantly focused on things to worry about.

Yes family and friends are important and family always comes first. I see this in quite a few ads,lol. If that were not the case, I'm sorry, but I probably wouldn't like you to much.

I am a smoker, I am working on quiting!!!!!!!! If you're not a smoker that would be a great motivator,lol.

I am more of night person than morning person. Meaning at six in the morning I'm not nearly at my best. I like just about any kind of music. Would like to get out to see more live music, whether a big name concert or just jam night at a local pub. Love movies, in which I would rather class them as favorites by actor/actress than by title or genre. I like to go for aimless drives while having a Timmy's searchin out the next lost shop to check thing out at. And the more typical things like playing a game of pool, bonfires, lightning storms, drinks in the hot tub. The list goes on and on.



Having said this much, I am the kind of guy that likes a woman to go out of her way to show she has interest. Mostly cause I'm a bit shy, although most of my friends would laugh at that. I guess I put on a good game face,lol.





I'm looking for someone who is compassionate, empathetic, honest, completely open, trustworthy. Someone who is comfortable having their man give themselves over completely to them as well. You must be very physically "affectionate" which isn't about sex. Although I do have a very healthy sex drive. I want someone that is not controlling, or a jealous person as I am not. I'm looking for an independant woman that wants, not needs someone in there life........

someone that feels comfortable within her own skin.

If you love yourself, think you are attractive when you look in the mirror and have spent some time cleaning out your personal closet of useless baggage (we all have some,lol), then I'd like to hear from you.

I guess everything else just would make good initial conversation as we get to know one another.

I am NOT interested in spending countless hours on my computer getting to know you. Let's face it.....until you meet there is no true way of telling if there's chemistry no matter how well you make yourself look in your pictures. And yes I did just recently take those pictures I've posted. Yes, I know the quality sucks and yes I will post better ones in the near future. Atleast you are able to tell I have hair, two eyes, a nose etc.

Basically, if you're not willing to meet up for atleast a coffee, don't expect me to spend very long typing away on here.

I did lose a bet and was forced into buying and wearing a Sabres jersey. More pics to come

Jay

Dates are subjective. There is something to say about just meeting up somewhere and spontaneously letting things develop.

Let's face it, our initial contact will be on a dating site. let's not make an itemized list of how everything should go..........

Let's just have some fun and see where the adventure takes us!