Send me a message and ask anything you wanna know...really. Geez, don't even know where to start. I'm just a middle aged, overweight white girl. Lol. I have two wonderful teenagers, ages 16 and 19, who are my best friends. My son is a 6'3" teddy bear and my daughter is a 5'6" comedian. I work hard. I am an honest, big-hearted every day kinda girl, you know like the kind you find next door...a hopeless romantic type. I don't dress fancy, I don't talk fancy and material things are nice but are not what make my world go around. I have 8 tattoos and 6 piercings, 5 of them in my ears. I have always been overweight since I was a child (please take note gentleman, I am NOT a living, breathing Barbie doll. I am a real woman with real flaws). However, I did just lose 40 pounds and gonna try for some more. I have spent a lot of years now focused on raising my kids and always puting them first, because that's the way it should be, but they have grown up on me! So, now I have kinda reached a point in my life where maybe it's okay for a little more "me" time...time to be Susie again along with my official superhero alias of Mom. I have also reached a point in my life of refusing to settle for anything less than what I deserve relationship-wise. I'm a lover, not a fighter. I can be strong willed and stubborn sometimes but I can also be very thoughtful and caring. I'm awesome...true story. Lol. But seriously, I do try to be a good person and treat others as I would like to be treated. Willing to share more...just ask.


Likes: Mark, passion & romance, pink roses, tattoos (tasteful ones), thunderstorms, autumn, music, my kids, folded chips, relaxing, friendly people, getting my tax refund check, long slow kisses(or any other kind of kisses), being in my pajamas, pay day, 80's rock & oldies, going to the movies, losing weight, texting, my space, teddy bears, going to church, strawberry shakes.


Dislikes: liars...wait, let me say that again...liars!!, heartbreak, broken promises, anchovies, drama, being late, heights, unfriendly people, car trouble, gaining weight, paying bills, bad hair days, shaving my legs (don't worry, i do it anyway), getting older, gynecologists, smashed bread, cleaning the bathroom, coffee & tea, overdraft fees (if I'm that broke, is it really necessary to rub it in my face!!).

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Some words that I choose to live by:

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.

Don't let someone become a priority in your life
when you're only an option in theirs.
(this is a tough one to stick to sometimes)

I am who I am...your approval is
not desired or required.

If something seems too good to
be true...it probably is.

It's better to give than to receive.

Don't believe anything that you hear
and only half of what you see.


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Some words that I just think are cute:

If you're gonna ride my ass
at least pull my hair!

Push me up against the wall
and kiss me like you mean it.

Skinny girls are for wimps.

You just can't fix stupid.
(not even with duct tape)

I need someone really bad.
Are you really bad??


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Some words that, over the years, I have found to be true:

The worst feeling ever is being forgotten
by someone you will never forget.

Love is just a word til it's proven to you.

There's lots of things that can be an enjoyabe time, just depends on who you're with I suppose. Of course, an opportunity for some quiet and relaxed conversation would be nice. It's just important for both people to be true to who they are and not try to be something you're not in hopes of impressing one another. If it's meant to be, it will be.