Thank you for viewing my profile and good luck in search. I have 3 grown up children. Im very optimistic but realistic as well. Very Confident, Hard worker, warm, loving, caring and conversational.

The size of your paycheck, the car you drive or the neighborhood you live in does constitute the ingredients required to create and maintain a peaceful, caring, loving ,constant positively supporting each other, kind of relationship we all desire and are looking for. None of the status or material you posses will be absorbed by the heart.

It takes two people who are willing and have a desire to make it work. It involves sacrifice from both, but deep down you can feel your veins are carrying the mutual love being embebbed into your heart, and you sense the door opens.

The relationship has stages, all based on the input. Think of a flower, you just can't plant it and walk away. You need to cultivate it, NOT change it,
it requires love, compliments, respect then you will be rewarded with an awesome bloom. Cultivate it every day, every week, every year, not just the first few.
Its about being a giver, rather than a taker, about sharing, dressing up or down for her/him, about romance, honest communication, forgiving and learning.

With in time the trust that is built leaves no room for Jealousy, or suspicious minds. Don't expect to get 100% when you only input 50%.
The relationship value is only worth as much as you invest in it.

In the end both will smile and the heart will begin to glow just by the mere presence of each other , its collecting on the invested time, an awesome priceless
feeling that one never forgets.

One must create a mutual comfort zone ,then followed by respecting your families, religion, culture,live life positively with a desire and a mutual feeling that more can be built to keep the flame glowing , by sustaining and cherishing each other. When in need of help and or support one steps up and provides it
with no strings or " you owe me " attached.
I am a "stand by your men" kind of woman, but dont take advantage of.
I am here evoke your passion and romanticism, make you feel and believe that being in love still possible and that second chances are still given to those who believe and patiently wait.

Looking for that special someone that would missed me when not around but not a pain on the neck. Willing to do what it takes to keep a healthy, romantic relationship.
Someone that I can spend the rest of life with, (please healthy) disease free,drug free, it is only fair for you and me, keep it healthy.

Family oriented but not a momma's boy, Im not kidding. Taking care of her, fine, love her to death, nice, taking her to church every sunday and maybe breakfast, God bless your soul, but please if you have to run to her every time you are to make a decision, then you are not my match, someone good with romantic details, not affraid to hold hands, hugs and kisses out of the blue; patient, willing to work together planning for the future. Yes we are to live like it is our last day, enjoy the present, the past is history, tomorrow mistery, but we should also think about the future, thats why we are looking for someone after all, Is too much isnt? oh well! I know you are out there is just that we have not run into each other...yet.
Is just that I dont want to be from relationship to relashionship or from bed to bed to find my special someone, I rather shop around, I know Im worth it plus Im too cute for that, talked me into it and lets see what happens,

I had a good marriage, therefore I beleive in love and marriage and trust and loyalty, freedom without cheating, repect for each others space without being suspicious, I know people complaint a lot about these issues, but it is possible and here I am fishing.... if you are not the one... wish me luck. But if you are, be absolutely sure that, here I am to be with you and for you, Thank you for your time and good luck.

Good Coffee and great conversation. Being ourselves, plain and simple.