First and foremost I am a very proud and devoted mother of 2 teenagers.They are what complet me.Do not sweat the small stuff, live for today and live it to the fullest. NOT looking for someone to define who i am, I do that for myself, but would like to find that special person to share life with! I am very independent brutally honest and strong-willed but also light-hearted, laid back & free-spirited!!Do not take these traits as me being confused, hard to get along with or difficult to deal with..lol I just know who I am and what I want from life as well as a mate!! I love all people and can get along with most everybody. I have been told that I have a magnetic personality.... or maybe that was magnetic eyes...LOL just kidding!! I have a great sense of humor. I ALWAYS look to the bright side of life, because life is far to short to get caught up in the negative aspects(hence not a prisoner of my past)....that messes with my CHI(LOL) to much and requires energy that I would much rather spend enjoying LIFE!

I think a first date should be something out of the ordinary, something that will put both parties at ease, and also shows the spontaneity and imagination of each individual.