Been a long time since dating, my how things change.
I am a very open minded person with many interests.
39 years old, like pretty much all music.
I will write more as time permits, work keeps me pretty busy.
One word of warning here, I am really looking for a woman that has a head on her shoulders, I have had the decoder rings in the past that allowed me to decipher a simple email or text message, it didnt turn out very well, if you cannot communicate, how can you express yourself ?

I am especially drawn to a woman that is very comfortable with herself mentally, physically, emotionally and of course sexually.

If you have any questions at all please feel free to ask.

Good luck and happy fishing.
Charles.

UPDATE.. I just changed my body type to slim at the behest of one of my coworkers that suggested this site, apparently I am slim not average.
She warned me a lot of people get this part wrong in their profiles.

Ok, one request, if you took your picture in the bathroom, please make sure there are no floatation devices visible in the toilet.
Second be truthful about body type, I just prefer honesty.

You cant change the world, you can change the facts and when you change the facts you change points of view and when you change points of view you can change a vote and when you change a vote you MAY change the world.

Ohh BTW I am an absolute sucker for redheads, after all they only come one of two ways drop dead gorgeous or nasty as possible.

One more update.
If any of these apply, just stop using dating sites. :-)

The Real Meaning Behind Those Personal Ad Abbreviations

THE WOMEN
• 30-ish
48

• Adventurer
Has had more partners than you ever will

• Athletic
Flat-chested

• Average looking
Ugly

• Beautiful
Pathological liar

• Contagious Smile
Bring your penicillin

• Educated
College dropout

• Emotionally Secure
Medicated

• Feminist
Fat; ball buster

• Free spirit
Substance user

• Friendship first
Trying to live down reputation as slut

• Fun
Annoying

• Gentle
Comatose

• Good Listener
Borderline Autistic

• New-Age
All body hair, all the time

• Old-fashioned
Lights out, missionary position only

• Open-minded
Desperate

• Outgoing
Loud

• Passionate
Loud

• Poet
Depressive Schizophrenic

• Professional
Real Witch

• Redhead
Shops the Clairol section

• Reubenesque
Grossly Fat

• Romantic
Looks better by candle light

• Voluptuous
Very Fat

• Weight proportional to height
Hugely Fat

• Wants Soulmate
One step away from stalking

• Widow
Nagged first husband to death

• Young at heart
Toothless crone

THE MALE SIDE OF THE LIST

• 40-ish
52 and looking for 25-yr-old

• Athletic
Sits on the couch and watches ESPN

• Average looking
Unusual hair growth on ears, nose, & back

• Educated
Will always treat you like an idiot

• Free Spirit
Sleeps with your sister

• Friendship first
As long as friendship involves nudity

• Fun
Good with a remote and a six pack

• Good looking
Arrogant

• Honest
Pathological Liar

• Huggable
Overweight, more body hair than a bear

• Like to cuddle
Insecure, overly dependent

• Mature
Until you get to know him

• Open-minded
Wants to sleep with your sister but she's not interested

• Physically fit
I spend a lot of time in front of mirror admiring myself

• Poet
Has written on a bathroom stall

• Spiritual
Once went to church with his grandmother on Easter Sunday

• Stable
Occasional stalker, but never arrested

• Thoughtful
Says "Please" when demanding a beer

Just looking around here to see if this site is legit or bot laden.