Yes, I want an "other relationship" and what I mean by this is an unlimiting companionship comprised of mutuality, being the best of friends, having unquestioned trust, having the utmost of respect for eachother, choosing to comfort rather than to be comforted, choosing to give rather than to get, graditude, deep caring, thoughtful in conversation. Values...really, it's all about values and of course, attraction and sparks, physical and mental.

To create such a relationship I'd need a companion who is very smart, very confident, a professional who is proud of his business achievements, is financially comfortable, a man who knows that one never stops growing and one who takes responsibility for how he creates his relationships and everything around him. He must also be health conscious, appreciate beauty, be sensitive to others needs, be a christian, enjoy most anything, share my interests and share his interests, be active and healthy. A happy energetic man!

I golf, dance, and sing in a choir. During any given week I'll golf two or three times with friends, take care of my two dogs, go to choir rehearsal, sing in church on Sunday morning, do what's necessary to maintain my home, visit with friends, eat out some, exercise, read, and schedule out other activities. I'm a good dancer but don't swing or cha cha as often as I'd like, which is more than once a month. You must dance or be enthusiastic about taking lessons. I adore being in my mans arms on the dance floor....from a woman's perspective, it's simply heaven!!!

Some of my other interests are classical music, jazz, big band & oldies, plays, art shows, festivals, day trips, traveling, sailing, cycling, kayaking, hiking and still go roller blading every so often (I'm still not very good at it). I also attend a few charity events every year.

I have a happy life, don't take myself too seriously, have good friends, blessed with good health and grateful for each day. Hope you can identify and that we share common values, attraction and interests.

Now, I've discussed some very serious issues because they needed to be said but when you meet me you'll soon know that I'm full of wit and good humor.

On a first date, talking over lunch is good.