sometimes the hardest thing to see is yourself, but here goes an effort. I'm a single parent of 2 boys. live in a small west central ks. town. Been widowed for seven years.
I'm a goal oriented person, work hard at my job. Probably my favorite saying is
"if your going to spend time doing something, do it right." (just ask my boys) No I'm not a perfectionist, far from it, just don't see the point in doing something twice.
I'm pretty much laid back about what life has to bring or offer. But I believe life has to offer whatever you make of what is offered to you. I'm straight forward, honest and compassionate.
I like doing almost anything outdoors, motorcycle riding, hunting. camping, fishing, nascar, and anything that is fun.
As for my music tastes classic rock mostly. southern rock, some newer rock isn't bad. very little country, but can tolerate.

My life is very stable, just want to find someone to share life with. I'm looking for a bestfriend to laugh with (maybe at) sometimes.


Not looking for a conditional relationship, simply unconditional. After the physical attraction and chemistry, communication and honesty prevail. Both of which are high on my attributes. Not into games or keeping score.

Why don't we decide that through our discussions and go from there?