a lil about myself honestly is that im very straight forward.. i know alot of people make the stupid desicion to pretend to be someone else when they first meet someone but im exactly the way i will be on day one and day .. well go ahead and pick a number.. cuz i dont hide who i am.. with that said i dont not associate with people who choose to live in a fantasy world and would rather wear a mask instead of being free and being just who they are.. so please dont bother with messaging me if you will hold out on me.. i welcome the weird.. the best way to gain my respect is just to be real and just be yourself.. trust me on the fact that i will encourage you in that and help you feel comfortable with that idea since most people have a hard time with that way of thinking.. but really with all that aside.. im from cali so yes.. im also a very chill guy.. i dont judge.. much.. ha.. just dont be too creepy... ha.

the first date .. let me say i will not do the lame dinner and a drink.. i dont want to influence you with alcohol haha.. thats horrible.. but i dont even like to call my first meetings with a girl dates cuz i want to get to know you in the least stressful situation so i'd keep it simple and just do like a coffee or something so we can focus on talking to see if we would ever get along in the first place.. im not there for the typical reason tool box joes take girls on dates for.. im there to see if we would mesh well and if not then we part our ways with no hard feelings.. no what i mean.. ha..