“So, tell me about yourself.” This is an easy request to comply with but it’s hard to get it right. Can someone accurately describe that of which they are a part? You’re better off asking them how others describe them. Now that’s easier.

I’ve been told that I’m tall, attractive well-spoken and considerate. Actually, I’m 6’1, about 205 lbs and athletic. I have a graduate degree and work in management. I like foreign travel and languages, music, and great books. My personal philosophy is to live, love and learn.

Why does an attached male look for friends on the internet? Well, don’t we all want to connect with attractive and intelligent people? Honestly, I long for the intellectual stimulation that comes from mature thought and behavior. And I’d rather get those qualities from women rather than the guys.

If you're an attached female who's just looking to spice things up then perhaps we can connect. I'd be pleased to offer a mutually beneficial friendship without the attachment. I’m active but easy going. I can be aloof at times but sincere.

That would depend on what we shared leading up to the first meeting. Since I live in California; I envision dinner with views of the ocean, some Napa Valley wine with Pan-Pacific cuisine. Then you can tell me what else you’re in the mood for.