I am first and foremost a mother of a 8 yr old daughter and 10 yr old son that live with me all the time. I am looking for a strong willed man with a great sense of humor.Someone that can make me laugh and enjoy just being themself. I need someone that will include my children, not just want me and have them be pushed to the side once we start dating. A easy going personality and a passionate side as well. I need someone that will respect me and my children, someone that will love hanging out with my friends as much as I do. I am looking for someone that will strike up the grill and say "lets cook out tonight" someone that can make a decission and stick to it. I am a very independent person .I am willing to let someone in to our life as long as they are willing to let me/us in as well. Someone that will love breakfast in bed and movies at night...someone that loves to cuddle on the couch and watch tv together...someone that will watch the Steelers with me, or Brett Farve and what ever team he is playing for this season...Someone that will be honest and not play games. I am a very passtionate person and love to cut up..I have been known by many to be a very talkitive person (not about myself..and not allll the time)LOL..I am very open and honest but not mean...I care about the people in my life and I belive that one should SAY WHAT THEY MEAN AND MEAN WHAT THEY SAY
I love the 80's music and love to hear live music ( the saxaphone is my all time favorite) I love hanging out with my kids, family and my friends. I love to go fishing, camping, reading a good book, I like going to the park and walking, Drive-ins, bowling, darts or just simply having a drink with some friends..
I enjoy going out dancing, movies or hanging at the house. I love to cook so cookouts are a MUST.. My children are my TOP priority but I am willing to make room for that special someone.:

Somewhere you can be yourself. A movie is a def NO..( when would you talk)??? A crowded bar..yelling at each other is also out. I think that a romantic setting is putting too much preasure on a already tense situation. I'm thingking that dinner, or drinks is something that could work...Get to know ya kind of thing and see where it takes you