I am involved with helping people. I am looking to go back to school to follow a dream that I have. I do not drink or do drugs today or use tobacco but I am not overly judgmental except when it comes to drugs. If you have to think twice about whether you should get drunk or not then move on, nothing personal I just want to find someone who wants to live in the here and now . I am a avid reader. I like most music but my favorite is post punk new wave.

I want a simple first date, going out for coffee and sitting and talking and getting to know the person I am with. Looks are not the most important thing to me attraction is just part of the whole mix.