I love to make people laugh, I can find humor in anything. I'm independent, unless I'm tired- then I will crawl up in your lap demanding attention. I am ridiculously positive and tend to surround myself with others the same. I am strong, compassionate, sometimes quiet- nothing is wrong, silence is nice sometimes. A little to playful, but I know when to behave myself. I am also a bit of a dork, come to meeee... (my jedi mind tricks)
I am an unguarded soul, this is a choice I have made as raw honesty hurts sometimes but provides excellent communication skills. It also eliminates any skeletons rearing their ugly head out of the closet. Respect and loyalty are not negotiable. I am the girl that could fall for someone that is in the military and truly wait for them to return from deployment.

I have 3 children... 2 live with me, one with her father. I love kids, it is amazing how each one of mine are completely different. I have the comedian, the pacifist, the aggressor... never a dull moment. One common thread, they are all taught to value a good education. I am accepting of the astronaut or the waitress as long as it is their choice as they will not be hindered by lack of education.

I do not watch alot of tv... I do not have any shows that I watch on a regular basis.
I do have piercings although they are covered. I mention this only as for some it is a deal breaker.

HANG UPS... No, I am not bipolar, nor do I have a stalker bone in my body. (who would want to be with someone that does not want them?) If they do not return your call... thats your closure. I have had 3 long term relationships that ran their course. I believe there are different people for you at different stages of your life. Some are just fortunate to find one that grows and changes along with them. A big thing about me, I do not like to fight. It has to be something major to get a rise out of me as it is a waste of my time and energy. I am here as i am looking for one that makes me smile just thinking of them. Something slow with the potential of grow. All of my friends are married, and I do not go out alot. When i do I am focused on my friends that i am with. I am still learning the dynamics of online dating... It is hard for me to understand the idealism behind pretending to be something you are not. I want to be desired for what I truly am, flaws and all. To live in a fantasy or illusion... something you have created to feel wanted is a lie. At the end of the day you are still unable to fulfill that need and you are missing the opportunity to find someone that will adore you for everything you are. Sorry... I am chatty sometimes and get carried away!

btw... do not bother contacting me if you are old enough to be my dad, or you are the cool guy with all your pics showing varying degrees of you getting trashed. I am out of college days and am not interested.

I am open... some where you can bond and get to know each other