Hello Gentlemen: I would like to say this first: THAT MY LOOKS IS MORE THAN SKIN DEEP. It comes with great heart, intelligence, independence, patience, great outlooks in life, and baggage free. Also free from drugs, alcohol, smokes, and dirt. So there, you have it, now please read on.

DURING MY REFLECTIVE MOMENTS (usually early in the morning), I ask myself this very important question: Where is my life going? Why am I on POF looking for my last friend and soulmate? What is my goal for doing this? How about you, are you being honest to yourself about your reasons why are you looking on POF. If you just want to play, please spare your words for me. I am not the one.

A FEW YEARS BACK IN MID 50'S, I have decided to change career and profession and when I was attending my nursing college, my goal is to have a solid source of living and be truly independent (emotionally and financially). And I worked very very hard to obtain my objective and freedom from adversities. I keep myself physically fit and healthy. At last, I only have to take care of myself. NO MORE ROLES AS AN ARM-CANDY FOR THE LAST PART OF MY LIFE, just to be with a man.

And now in the present, I don't have anybody. And I am missing the companionship, the caring, love, friendship, sharing, etc. etc. I have been waiting and looking for a man like you to come into my life, come on in, the water is fine. There's no shark in my corner, just fine silk and a very fine woman, see for yourself. I AM JUST HONESTLY TRYING TO FIND THE LAST LOVE OF MY LIFE.

I am not getting older just gotten much better, and still young at heart. I still like to play and purr like a kitten and be petted like one. I enjoy a lot of affection, passion, romance, quality time (plain and simple is good), and I will try anything once. I JUST DON'T WANT TO TRY HAVING ANY MORE OF A BROKEN HEART. So, NO, I am not looking for a date, I am looking for a possible love match and companion.

I once read a quote that I truly believe in and try to live by "The past is over and the future is not yet-my desires must therefore be in and for the present". I am all that I am in the present. What I wish I were or think I ought to be has to be looked for in the future. LET'S DO THIS JOURNEY TOGETHER? I will be your friend, I will always be on your side. Try me, I am quite a woman.

I am an incurable romantic, I believe in love, that little things mean a lot (like good communication, holding hands, a handpicked rose, a glance that says "you are everything to me" or "What am I living for if not for you?" Like throw me a kiss from across the room and wink at me with a smile. This is still in the present.

NOW, HOW CAN WE FIND EACH OTHER IF YOU DON'T RESPOND?

My hobbies: Staying fit (physical and mental), dancing, sightseeing, walk in the clouds or the parks and beaches, perhaps, something new. OR it could be YOU.

A simple place with lots of privacy and ambiance. Then for the second date, we will go for the music and dancing if we feel like it. We can make a steamy night or slow and easy getting to know each other. We will see what happens.