I am finally realizing that what's missing in my life is a partner to begin sharing my life again. If there's sparks, then talking and listening at an outdoor cafe (weather permitting). Remember listening? I feel that I am still the gentleman type. If you don't think it's too old fashioned, I will still open your car door and help you with your chair at the table. Why? It's the way I was raised and I think it's still the right thing to do for a lady like you. I enjoy playing guitar in my contemporary christian church band on the weekends but also, love to sneak away to a favorite part of town to a restaraunt I've never been to. Eyes and smiles are what I see in a person for the first time. If you've captured me with those two then you've got me.

I feel a first meeting would be at a coffee house or over a social drink. I do prefer the micro brews lately and the Kaldi's Coffee Shops. If that works into a dinner then by all means let's go. Maybe that could be the second date as well. What do you think?